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Things are Looking Up

Leslie April 27th, 2010

I am encouraged by so many good things happening in our economy, at long last.  Now that it’s Spring, for me, it’s time to start looking in the closet and reevaluating what belongs and what doesn’t.  That’s my next task.  In my case, the closet, which my father refers to as “the tunnel” has a myriad of opportunities to go back in time - if I’m in the mood.  If not, those beautiful clothes of a few years gone by continue to pile up and suck up the room that my new additions need.  Every season, it’s like this.  What to keep, what to give up.  For some, this process is not a big deal.  For others, like me, there may be history in the clothes that I am not yet ready to part with.  I’m sure that I do hold on too long to some things, knowing full well that I won’t wear them again, yet I still want to see them in my closet. 

I try to choose a morning to start the ”repurposing” process.  It can sometimes take a few mornings to complete.  Right now, I’m still sitting with all of my dark winter clothes in front of me, with 70 degree weather and sunshine outside.  I’m very aware of my ambivalence about this closet purge - not quite ready to change.  Maybe tomorrow morning.

I have been dreaming of new jewelry designs, lately - surely a good sign that my optimism is returning.  I’m looking forward to a much better second half of this year. 

It’s February - Time for a Little Optimism

Leslie February 1st, 2010

It’s been a long slog through the past year of the economic roller coaster.  Over time, it becomes difficult to live in the dark places of gloom and doom.  I know that for many, things have only changed for the worst.  For many others, things were never that bad but the mood darkened even the lightest of times.  Like so many things in life, acting the part can often get you the part.  Most people in our country pulled back drastically in spending, (including those that really didn’t need to) and made things even worse.  Understandable, we were all worried that the country was going down the poop chute.  We pulled back and then almost drove it down that chute. 

In the most broad sense, our country has been traumatized with a severe loss of economic wealth and up until Christmas was acting like Scrooge on steroids.  Thankfully, Christmas brought out a little reaching into the pocket, thereby rescuing what was looking like a retail debacle, with reverberations throughout the rest of the economy.

Listening to the pundits, both economic and otherwise, it appears likely that our recovery will neither be easy, smooth nor fast.  Instead, we are looking at a bumpy ride over the next couple years, as the country struggles to resorb lost jobs, lost industries and lost opportunities.  Day to day may feel pretty similar to what it has been - mixed news on the economic front combined with the assorted political stalemates that are paralyzing our country.

In spite of the upcoming uncertainty, there still can be room for a small bit of cheer.  We have somehow averted cataclysmic disaster economically and we are on the long, windy road back from the brink.  This is the situation now - better than the situation before.   So what do we do about it?  Try to develop a more positive attitude to the present and near term.

Thinking positively will help in every way.  I am dusting off my jewelry and creating some new designs.  I will start to move my inventory into stores shortly.  I am thinking creatively about my business prospects and considering new approaches.  If the worst is behind us, then we must conclude that good is ahead of us.  Many very successful businesses began at low points of our economy and built from there.  It can be done.  Just not overnight. 

So we need to get some sleep and start putting the pieces back together slowly and steadily, better than before.  That’s what I’m trying to do now and I feel better already.

 

Christmas Season - 2009

Leslie December 6th, 2009

I’m sure that this Chistmas, like the one that passed in ‘08, will long be remembered - for the misery, the uncertainty and the wholehearted lack of enthusiasm blanketing the holidays.  Yes, I have been out at the malls, I have visited the main shopping streets in Pasadena, Beverly Hills, Santa Monica.  I have heard the Christmas music piped in through the trees on the street and in the malls throughout.  Looking around, though, without the music prompt and just looking at the faces of strangers passing me by, I get the distinct, gut feeling that many are deer in the headlights, frozen in Christmas space, wondering what to do next.

It is definitely an anxious time for many.  For some, it is even worse.  Yes, I know that a large percentage of us are still fine, thank you and managing quite well.  I’m glad.  We can’t all go to hell in a handbasket.  Those of us that are better off need to step up this holiday season to contribute to the welfare of many who are hungry and unemployed. 

This season, I suggest thinking and doing something about what the Christmas holiday actually stands for - goodwill to others.  Sorry to say, but lately I notice a profound lack of even basic consideration of others - in stores, on the street, everywhere.  It’s time to take a step back and consider that all of us occupy a place in this society.  Common regard for others in the form of courtesy and respect is what a civilized society practices. 

I do hope for a better year in 2010.  I know that I will have a part in making it better by doing and being the best person I can be.  Difficult to do, but if you take it one day at a time, it is easier.

Have a joyful and healthy holiday season.  Here’s to a more prosperous and stable new year.   

To Shop or Not to Shop?

Leslie September 1st, 2009

Actually, shopping isn’t the real issue, it’s buying.  So, rephrased - to buy or not to buy?  My new motto for this coming Fall and Holiday season is, “Buy better, buy fewer.”  But, then again, I have always been a quality buyer.  Over time, you do wind up with quantity, yes, but all of what you have is quality pieces.  As a classic Midwesterner, this has been the approach that made the most sense.  I really hate the idea of buying something, spending real money on it, and then essentially throwing it away because it was either too trendy and looked stupid two seasons later, or it was poorly made and didn’t survive a couple of cleanings.  Or, in the case of jewelry, was a piece of costume junk that broke or bled black or green on my wrist, neck, shirt or fingers.

So, my interpretation of all of the financial calamity is to make more out of less.  Pay off the credit cards and make a new habit of being highly discriminating in your purchasing behavior.  I notice that most of the fashion magazines are focusing once again on investment dressing.  Further, it appears that many of the manufacturers are starting to ever so quietly, ease up on pricing.  The designer discount sites on the Web seem to be generating very substantial sales and that’s good, because it does send a message to the designers that women don’t want to be suckers.  Last year, women sent the message that they were finished with stratospheric pricing and stopped spending (some had to, others simply got tired of being gouged).  Even I was shocked at some of the typical markups on some of these items.  Very excessive.  On the other hand, there is so much competition and so much talent out there, in order to make a living, many thought that high prices would be a safer bet.  Last year, that philosophy stopped working.

So, it’s on to a new season of still very expensive clothing, shoes and purses, minus a few key players in each category.  Jewelry has taken the biggest beating, I think, because it is so unnecessary.  I am hopeful that some rationality will ultimately prevail in the fashion industry, though I believe it will take time to recalibrate the designers, manufacturers and retailers to the “new normal” in women’s purchasing behavior.

It’s been a wild ride this past year.  On September 15th last year, the market began its collapse, and the world since then has changed dramatically, maybe permanently.  Fingers crossed on getting through the rest of this year without more of the same.   

Maintaining Hopefulness

Leslie June 11th, 2009

I haven’t been writing too much on this (mostly) unread blog, mainly because the “externals” have been so bleak.  The world news, the economic news, the California strife etc. have not been very encouraging for the Luxury Basics jewelry business.  Many of the fashion magazines have gotten the message that spending for frivolous items has gone by the boards - probably for a long time to come.  Maybe this is the new normal, watching what and how you spend and making sure that you put something away for that rainy day.  This behavior certainly characterized my childhood and growing up years.  Materialism was not the center of our existence - not that we didn’t crave certain items.  We saved for them.  Silly notion. 

I guess that has been where I have been coming from all along with my premise for this jewelry business.  Buy quality.  Real gold, real pearls, real jewels.  Invest in the things that you really love and leave the rest behind.  Of course, buying what’s in fashion now is completely fun - but it’s also an expensive habit to maintain.  What’s in today will be out tomorrow.  Classic is always in, though not as much fun.  Much easier on the pocketbook, though, and easier on your head when you go to sleep at night.  Fewer wrinkles of worry.  Less Botox.  See, it does make sense.

Adjusting your head to the new reality of limits will result in less worry and over time, more hopefulness about the future and your ability to be happy and satisfied with the life you are living.

Spring Fashions

Leslie April 18th, 2009

Of course I love fashion.  I love to see it in magazines, on the street, on cool-looking, well-put-together women and everywhere I go.  This Spring’s fashions mainly win my vote, with a couple of qualifications.  First, the shoes.  The platforms, hidden or obvious, and the sky high heels to me, at least, are at best, whimsical.  They are only made for viewing, certainly not for walking more than a few steps, mainly for sitting, I think.  The prices are as high as the heels, stratospheric - certainly hard to rationalize as a must-have wardrobe addition, given the limited use.  I could be wrong, but it seems to me that the whole lot, including those sandals with a grid going up your ankle, can only last a season.  By Fall, they should be well hidden in the back of the closet, if you broke down and got a pair.

The same with the jewelry.  So big, so chunky, most of it so unattractive, too heavy.  Some of the pieces out there in the magazines and stores are so large and heavy, you would need to be a giraffe to comfortably wear them.  Or maybe Queen Victoria, who was prone to large pieces.  I am hoping that the oversized, excessively decorated pieces will also find their way to the back of the drawer by the end of the season, as well. 

I find that while being part of the fashion business, I still need to be true to my instincts and my talents as to what really, truly looks good on a woman.  It’s one thing to want to look fashionable and stylish, it’s another to wear something that actually detracts from your attractiveness or looks just plain ugly and inappropriate.

I believe that it’s important to keep in mind what you are trying to achieve with any particular look.  Also, it’s important to keep in mind that others will be looking at you and forming opinions, just like they did of Susan Boyle last week.  She had the opportunity to change people’s minds when she performed.  You may not get the chance. 

I do respect the talent and creativity out there in the fashion world. Not everything works.  I don’t think that the men designing the 7 inch shoes would be caught dead in them.  Nor would the men designers of the heavy jewelry put one of those necklaces on for more than a second.  It feels like wearing a ball and chain around your neck. 

I know that fashion can require sacrifice.  Just have some perspective.

It’s March - Let’s Put Winter Behind Us

Leslie March 1st, 2009

Such a horrible last three or four months, at least as we move into March, the days will get longer and things will start to bloom.  Spring is really my favorite time of year.  So what is there to say?  I have been conspicuously absent these last couple of months, basically trying to assess the local, national and world situation, on an absolute basis and of course, on how it all relates to me.  We all know what the news is.  The question that remains is how to maintain a positive attitude, generate enthusiasm and move forward?  Challenging………but I am trying.

I have created a new section in my webstore - The Must Have Work Week Wardrobe - where I have boiled down the items from my various Collections to the essential few that will take the working woman through her week, out at night and traveling.  You can find it on the Home Page and click from there.  I will be sending out a Press Release shortly.

I’m still creating new pieces and have a fresh Collection waiting to be photographed.  Maybe in late spring or early summer.  So many of my friends are experiencing the trauma of the downturn emotionally, though not necessarily financially, the timing just doesn’t feel right yet.

In the meantime, this whole economic nightmare gives us all a chance to cultivate the notion of living each day as it comes and celebrating the small as well as the big.  Spending a little money, or giving a little money (or both) also wouldn’t hurt.  What’s important now is to take the control of the things that are within your control and stop ruminating over those that are beyond your control.  Stay focused on the good, watch less news on TV, and hopefully, by the end of this year, things will start to improve.  Fingers crossed.

Going Into Christmas

Leslie December 19th, 2008

The old saws of “counting your blessings” and “be thankful for what you have” may fall a lot short for many people this holiday season.  It can be hard to live on lemonade when life hands you all those lemons.  And for those of us that are more fortunate at this moment in time (and we all know that this condition can change) it is up to us to reach out to those that are paddling in a boat with some holes in it.  If we all do a little, then the misery may moderate, at least a bit.

A good thing to remember is that the ecomony does swing back and forth.  Since we are currently in the “swing back” mode, it is really critical to keep in mind that at some point in time the economy will “swing forth.”  We just hope that the swing forth stage happens in our lifetime!  But I believe that it will.  So, instead of dwelling on the negatives this holiday season, and surely, there is plenty that we can dwell on there - I think it would be time better spent to assess how to “do your life different” this coming year.  Focusing on the qualitative in life, not the quantitative.  Deriving pleasure and satisfaction from good deeds instead of good purchases.  Good purchases are fine, but the satisfaction is fleeting.  I’m talking about sustaining an interest and involvement in an activity that generates the kind of satisfaction that is good for your soul and spirit and makes you feel good about yourself.

So get out there and buy a toy for a child and drop it off at your nearest fire station, grocery store or police station.  That’s a very cost effective way of starting the season out right and paving the way for a new beginnning in January. 

Buy Less, Enjoy it More

Leslie November 6th, 2008

There is so much news out there, it’s enough to make you gasp for breath.  We have a new, historic President, an economy on the skids and heading further south, a world economy heading in the same direction as us, and lots of the same terrorist threats, ad nauseum.  So what’s a person like me, in the jewelry business, to do?  Good question - I ask it of myself every day. 

Clearly, jewelry is a luxury, not a necessity.  Further, adding to your jewelry wardrobe is, at best, a low priority.  Wealthier customers may not feel like the timing is right to go out and blow thousands of dollars on baubles to wear to downscaled parties this season.

How, then, to justify or rationalize an expenditure that you working women out there who are doing well, thank goodness, would like to entertain in the jewelry department?  I will offer this.  Buy what you really like and will use and enjoy for years to come.  Buy things that are versatile, and can be worn in a multitude of settings.  Try to avoid buying super trendy pieces that will look like yesterday’s news by next month.  Focus on pieces that don’t repeat what you already have at home.  Stay within your budget.  There.  Do you feel better?  What I’m trying to say is, don’t throw your hardearned money away on stuff that will just sit in the drawer.  We all have tons of that.

What we need to do now is use this downturn to rid ourselves of all the stuff that we have and don’t need or use.  In our closets, in our garages, in our drawers - you get the picture.  We can and should donate these former treasures to others that are is greater need right now.  Then, when you can finally see light in between the hangers in the closet, and space in the drawer, give some careful thought to the life that you are living - the lifestyle, the day to day.  Try being realistic about what you really need to live your life happily and then try being practical about making your holiday list.  Not an easy task, I know.

Still, I think the message of what has occurred in our economy today, blended together with the issues relating to our planet should provide the underpinning of a new philosophy of less consumption, greater appreciation of the intangibles in life (love, friendship, family) and a giving an outstetched arm to others that could benefit.  Buy less, enjoy it more. 

Leslie November 6th, 2008


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